Saturday 28 April 2012

Life is Echo

A man and his son were walking in the forest.

Suddenly the boy trips and feeling a sharp pain he screams,  “Ahhhhh.”
Surprised, he hears a voice coming from the mountain,  “Ahhhhh!”
Filled with curiosity, he screams:

“Who are you?”,
but the only answer he receives is:
“Who are you?”
This makes him angry, so he screams:
“You are a coward!”,
and the voice answers:
“You are a coward!”
He looks at his father, asking,
“Dad, what is going on?”
“Son,” the man replies, “pay attention!”
Then he screams, “I admire you!”
The voice answers: “I admire you!”
The father shouts, “You are wonderful!”,
and the voice answers:
“You are wonderful!”
The boy is surprised, but still can’t understand what is going on.
Then the father explains,

“People call this ‘ECHO’,
but truly it is ‘LIFE!’ Life always gives you back what you give out!
 
Life is a mirror of your actions. 
If you want more love, give more love! 
If you want more kindness, give more kindness!
If you want understanding and respect, give understanding and respect! 
If you want people to be patient and respectful to you, give patience and respect!
 
This rule of nature applies to every aspect of our lives.”


 
Your life is not a coincidence, but a mirror of your own doings.

Wednesday 25 April 2012

Someone Who Understands


 A store owner was tacking a sign above his door that read "Puppies For Sale."

Signs like that have a way of attracting small children, and sure enough, a little boy appeared under the store owner's sign. "How much are you going to sell the puppies for?" he asked.

The store owner replied, "Anywhere from $30 to $50."

The little boy reached in his pocket and pulled out some change. "I have $2.37," he said. "Can I please look at them?"

The store owner smiled and whistled and out of the kennel came Lady, who ran down the aisle of his store followed by five teeny, tiny balls of fur.

One puppy was lagging considerably behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging, limping puppy and said, "What's wrong with that little dog?"

The store owner explained that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and had discovered it didn't have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame.

The little boy became excited. "That is the puppy that I want to buy."

The store owner said, "No, you don't want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I'll just give him to you."

The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner's eyes, pointing his finger, and said, "I don't want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I'll pay full price. In fact, I'll give you $2.37 now, and 50 cents a month until I have him paid for."

The store owner countered, "You really don't want to buy this little dog. He is never going to be able to run and jump and play with you like the other puppies."

To his surprise, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the store owner and softly replied, "Well, I don't run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands!"














We ALL need someone who Understands!

Saturday 21 April 2012

All I Ever Learn

All I ever learned from a dog:

1. Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joy ride.

2. Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.

3. When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.

4. When it's in your best interest, always practice obedience.

5. Let others know when they've invaded your territory.

6. Take naps and always stretch before rising.

7. Run, romp, and play daily.

8. Eat with gusto and enthusiasm.

9. Be loyal.

10. Never pretend to be something you're not.

11. If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.

12. When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.

13. Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.

14. Thrive on attention and let people touch you.

15. Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.

16. On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.

17. When you are happy, dance around and wag your entire body.

18. No matter how often you are criticized, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout. Run right back and make friends.

Thursday 19 April 2012

Greater Than God !


What is greater than God,
More evil than the Devil,
The poor have it,
The rich need it,
If you eat it, you will die?


No pressure though.
Think about it first and then scroll down for the answer.































The answer to the riddle is "nothing"

Monday 16 April 2012

The Burning Hut

The only survivor of a shipwreck washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming.

Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions.

But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost.

He was stung with grief and anger.

"God, how could you do this to me!" he cried.

Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him.

"How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers.

"We saw your smoke signal," they replied.

It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain and suffering.

Remember next time you are in trouble, bear in mind it could be a turn in your life for something better.

Friday 13 April 2012

God's Coffee



A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. 

Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.   

Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the coffee.   

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said:  "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones.

While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.   

Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink.   

What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups... And then you began eyeing each other's cups.  

Now consider this: Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. 

They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of Life we live.  

Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us."  

God brews the coffee, not the cups.......... Enjoy your coffee!   




  

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God. 

Thursday 12 April 2012

A Religious Wise Man

An old wise religious teacher was walking though a forest with his pupil.


As they were about to cross a river they saw a young beautiful girl who was unable to cross the river. The religious the old man held to a very strictly rule which is to forbade touching other women except their wives. 


The old man thought if he left the young girl there alone, wild animals from the forest would eat her.So he helped her to cross the river.After crossing the river the old man and his student started to walk alone again.


Some moments later the student,with a hidden excitement,asked,’Guru,how could you violate your religion’s law being a religious leader yourself?’

The man answered,"Son,I have stopped carrying the girl as soon we crossed the river but it is you who is still carrying her in your mind"



Wednesday 11 April 2012

Four Wives

There was a rich merchant who had four wives. He loved the fourth wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the third wife very much. He’s very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his second wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant’s confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his second wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant’s first wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.


One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, “Now I have four wives with me. But when I die, I’ll be alone. How lonely I’ll be!”
Thus, he asked the fourth wife, “I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No way!” replied the fourth wife and she walked away without another word.
The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant’s heart. The sad merchant then asked the third wife, “I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No!” replied the 3rd wife. “Life is so good over here! I’m going to remarry when you die!” The merchant’s heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the second wife, “I always turned to you for help and you’ve always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?” “I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!” replied the second wife. “At the very most, I can only send you to your grave.” The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : “I’ll leave with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.” The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, “I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !”
Actually, we all have four wives in our lives. 
The fourth wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it’ll leave us when we die. 
Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others. 
The second wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we’re alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave. 
And the first wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

Monday 9 April 2012

Carpenter and A House

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his contractor of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family.
He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end his career.

When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This is your house," he said, "my gift to you."
What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.

So it is with us. We build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we do not give the job our best effort.
Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built. If we had realized, we would have done it differently.

Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely. It is the only life you will ever build.
Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity. The plaque on the wall says, "Life is a do-it-yourself project."

Who could say it more clearly? Your life today is the result of your attitudes and choices in the past. Your life tomorrow will be the result of your attitudes and the choices you make today.

Saturday 7 April 2012

Life As A Game


"Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them - work, family, health, friends and spirit and you're keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.

If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls - family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.

They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.

How?


    • Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
    • Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
    • Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
    • Don't let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life. 
    • Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
    • Don't be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
    • Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
    • Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you've been, but also where you are going.
    • Don't forget that a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
    • Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
    • Don't use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

Thursday 5 April 2012

Be A Giver


An old man aged over 80 years old. He was planting a durian tree when he was observed by a neighbor. (A durian is a thorny fruit with a very pungent smell. It is known as the King of Fruits and is very popular in South East Asia)
The neighbor asked the old man “Do you expect to eat durian from that tree?” The durian tree will take about 8 to 10 years to bear fruit.
The old man rested smilingly on his spade. He said “No, at my age I know I won’t. All my life I have been enjoying durians but never from a tree I have planted before. I wouldn’t have had durians if other men have not done have not done what I am doing now. I am just trying to pay the other men who planted durians for me.” No wonder he is so happy.
We should be GIVERS first and GETTERS second in everything we do. We will not only get what we want but will actually be really happy in the end. Because we need to sow first before we can reap.


Tuesday 3 April 2012

Behind 5 Things


One night a man had a dream. In his dream God commanded him to travel West, along with few things to do.

"The first thing you see, eat it. The second thing you encounter, hide it. The third thing you get, accept it. The fourth thing, do not lose hope and lastly, run from it."

The man got up from his dream and went towards West the next morning. He walked, and the first thing he saw was a big black hill. He was puzzled, he was ordered to eat it but surely it was impossible thing to do.

However the man went closer to the hill to eat it and suddenly, the hill shrunk into a piece of bread. He took it and placed it inside his mouth. It tasted sweet, like honey. He thanked God.

He continued his journey and came upon a gold cup. He quickly remembered he was ordered to hide it. Without wasting time he dug a hole next to the cup, and placed it in. He covered the hole and kept walking.

But suddenly the gold cup appeared from the hole. He man buried it 3 times but failed. Then he said, " I had done what you asked me to, God." So he left the place with the gold cup remained on the ground.

He kept on walking, as he saw an eagle was chasing a small other bird. The bird came and said to him, "Dear God's servant, help me." The man felt sympathy for the bird and took it, hiding it inside his shirt, as he remembered what God told him for the third thing, to hide what you see.

From the the eagle came to the man and said to him, "Dear God's servant, I am hungry and I have been chasing the bird since this morning. So please don't take my sustenance." Begged the eagle. The man remembered God's fourth order, never break hope.

So he jumped to a conclusion by cutting a small piece of his own flesh, taken from his thigh and gave it to the eagle. After the eagle left the man let the bird inside his shirt free.

With that, he continued. Soon he came across a rotten corpse with awful smell, that no one couldn't bear it. The stink was unbearable, so the man fled from the place, and returned to his home. On that night he prayed to God. "I have done all the things you asked me, now please tell me the meaning of each of my actions."

In his next dream God explained to him.

"The first thing you ate was rage and anger. First it might seem big like a hill but soon, when you managed to control and retain yourself, it would be sweeter than honey.

The second thing was all the good deeds a man does. No matter how the person tries to hide it, people and God will surely notice it.

The third thing is to accept someone's trust on us. So do not betray someone who has given his or her trust on us.

Fourthly, when a man comes to you and asks for your help, try to help him in anyway you can even though you yourself wish for it.

The last thing, the corpse resembles the action of telling someone's weakness. Then you should refrain yourself from getting closer to a group of people who're discussing about others' weaknesses.